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Reasons Why I Shouldn't Pay Attention to Porn pt 1

I love that I have a bunch of series on here by the way, just a random thought before starting this.

It's been mentioned here before that I don't watch porn.  I get bored rather than turned on, and while I am constantly horny, I seldom find my mind wandering through fantasies (perhaps as a defense mechanism) though I will look back on some particularly fun recent encounters often enough.

However, I do use Tumblr.  And my tumblr is pretty much just porn.  Small little images, gifs, and thoughts that I find attractive, or that I can relate to.  They usually don't turn me on than other porn would, but I find it more fun to take in these little tidbits and passing thoughts than actually sitting down to watch porn (which, really, I can't sit through a whole TV show, why the hell would I be able to watch porn?)

There are a few things that I've noticed in the many gifs of hetero-fucking that I scroll through on my dashboard, and I know that nothing in porn should be taken seriously, but enough of it is amateur, which is far more credible for being actual encounters rather than scripted movements.
Things that make me feel like I'm just odd when it comes to fucking.
Yes, this almost became another weird things post.

First, from what I've seen, the vast majority of girls futz with their clit while being fucked.  I know that compared to most my clit is pretty much dead, but I feel like it's odd that I don't need any attention paid to my clit whatsoever to get off and enjoy sex.  I feel way more, and honestly enjoy sex more the less someone plays with my clit, and just focuses on penetration with fingers and cocks.  I'm fully willing to accept that this is my own weirdness, and that many women need that stimulation to supplement intercourse, but it still seems odd to me.  It turns men into more of a masturbatory aid than anything else, and I want to be able to enjoy and focus on my partner first and foremost.

The other thing I've noticed, is that women rarely move while getting fucked.  Sure, a lot of what I look at is forceful power exchange related sexytimes, but it seems that unless the woman is on top, they just kind of lay there and let the man jerk off with either their vagina or their ass.  This, I would hate to be an odd case over.  When I'm with a partner, I find that I like a position less if I am unable to move.  I have in the past actually been accused of fucking partners too hard, and moving so much that they couldn't keep up.  I am wondering if perhaps they had only experienced women who would starfish the bed, and if this is the average.

So, yea, this is what I notice in porn.  Because I couldn't possibly just glance at something, find it hot, and move on.

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