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Not so Solid Planning

For a few days after Christmas, I went up with Lux to visit his place, and have some time to ourselves.  We had planned to go to the movies, have a ton of sex, be violent, and snuggle with a bunch of movies.  It was going to be some solid time of killing stress, and taking care of all the cravings we'd had over the holidays.

Well, we killed stress and snuggled.  There was still some sex, though no where near as much as normal for us, because we were both happy just curled up playing video games, and felt at peace enjoying hanging out together.  Half the movies we wanted to watch fell to the wayside for gaming, and shorter youtube videos, and the desire to simply lounge on the couch cuddled and naked won out to putting on clothes to see what we had planned to out.

And it was perfect, honestly.   No real worries of trying to get things done, or scheduling anything.  There wasn't even power exchange other than how we normally wind up handling things, and there didn't need to be, in any way.

We really just needed time to relax with someone there, and decompress from everything that happened over the holidays.

Coming back here a few days later, has me thinking about everything we planned to do, and how I don't really care about us not getting it done.  We'll have chances to get to it all, and we tend to do what is most needed for us, regardless of what we plan ahead of time.

I do already miss him, but I'll see him again soon enough.

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