Context Clues

I've talked on here a ton of times about how most pornography does nothing for me.  About how I find it boring, or simply something to giggle at, if it depicts any form of sexual conduct.  And how the only time I can be aroused by outside images is generally if it is focused on torture itself.

A couple weeks ago Lux and I were in the car, and he was talking about porn he found hot, and I just giggled at it.  His immediate reaction was to ask why we have sex so often.  That whenever he mentions porn he's seen, I find it funny, and never say if I find it hot.  I had to remind him that a heavy majority of what turns me on is context.  More than half of what he tells me he sees may make me giggle at mentioning it, but if he were to do it, I'd be all about it. 

When I came back from camping recently, we were plotting nefarious plots of sexy things, like we normally do.  And he mentioned something about us playing with another guy, and not allowing me to make him cum via heteronormative ways.  I told him I'd have no interest in it, but would love to just tear him apart.
He was reminded that I would likely only have sexual contact with him, and again I had to remind him how important context is to me.
I may look at a man and remark how hot he is.  I may even say when first looking at him that I would fuck him half dead.  However, if he were to walk up to me and ask, and I would put real thought into it, I'd turn him down almost assuredly.  I would offer to beat the shit out of him though.

My mind is so firmly set on having to know anyone I do anything sexual with, whether it be making out, or having marathon sex.  I can have a physical attraction to someone, but far and away any sexual attraction is due to chemistry via personality.

And, really, why have to deal with fucking someone new, and likely being bored with it, when Lux is there, who I enjoy fucking, and we've hit the point where we know how to bone each other right.  I mean, sure, he could order me to fuck someone else, but I doubt he'd want attention taken from him. 
Although it might be fun for the both of us to be spouting snark about how someone else needs to be fucking me better.