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Building Better

With me feeling much more toppy than normal, Lux and I have a lot of the same worries lately.  That someone will either make a false claim about us, or miscommunicate, or something will happen, and we'll both be thrown down the hole of consent violators, unable to say anything because of his appearance, and my lack of visible credibility as a top.

We talk about how we don't want to get lax enough have that become a chance.

That we're worried with any new person we play with, or would potentially play with.

We also talk about precautions we take with each other.  Either being present for the other's scenes as an extra set of eyes.

How we will call out any bad habits we see forming, even when together, and encourage the good ones to stay, and grow.

Sometimes, being a safe partner is a team effort, and that's why we can't leave these things to ourselves.  We need to know where we slip, even if accidentally, and even if just for a second.

It's something to keep in mind for us both again.

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