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I often hear men talking about a desire for women with no or little morals.  Whenever they show their excitement over it, it makes my thoughts go Princess Bride all over the place.

This does not mean what you think it means.

Morals can cover our entire life code.  Being able to set personal limits based on what we believe are the actions of a good and true person, and sticking to them is a sign of strength.  We challenge ourselves with our morals against the obstacles life throws at us.

It's not having unprotected sex with new partners, even if it means not fucking when you want to.

It means being honest to your partners.

Morals help us build bonds between people.  It makes us consistent, reliable partners.  Finding someone with a similar moral code helps find compatible mates that can live together.

To live without morals is to live without any regard for yourself or anyone else.  It endangers lives, and destroys our connection to the world.

And I suppose if you felt that way yourself, you may find companionship in someone similar, until you both fucked each other over long enough that you couldn't be around the other.

Personally, I have very strong morals, for the ones I have.  They make me a trustworthy person, who lives somewhat safely, while still being able to enjoy all the experiences life throws at me.
And really, that's something worth striving for.

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