I've been seeing a lot of articles getting attention lately, about why you should have sex with your partner every day. Giving tons of reasons, most of them valid, and a ton of great experience to back it up.
However, do I agree with it?
Not really.
Sure, I'd love to be in a position where I could fuck every day. Hell, multiple times a day if possible, but that's just my own nymphomania talking.
Sex on the regular is awesome, but it just takes the edge off the hunger that's always there. What I believe is necessary, especially if living with a significant other, is all the small gestures of physical intimacy. Someone can have sex every day, and have it fall into routine like everything else they do, and begin seeing it as just a normal motion of the day. We take our partners for granted, without showing them the appreciation and desire they deserve.
Quiet snuggles before bed. Holding the person you care about and kissing them gently on the forehead just before falling asleep. Grabbing them as they walk by to hug them tight, and kiss them with such desire they need to stay in your arms for a few moments longer just to be able to walk away. Randomly running your hands over their body, under their clothes.
These little gestures based on desire alone, show the appreciation of your partner and their presence. It's the pure intimacy behind the actions, and the uniqueness of each one that keeps it from feeling like routine.
We need to remember how much we care about our partners, and the growth they promote within us. It is important we not forget to thank them for that, as often and naturally as possible.
And yes, sex is important. Sex is even better on the regular, because the more we get, the more we tend to want. It increases desire, lets off pheromones, and builds the bond between us and our partners. It also feels like an obligation for some people after a while. Or we are tired, or stressed, or sick, and simply don't have the time and energy to fuck. These times especially we should never let physical contact fall to the wayside. These are the nights where you curl up on your partner, tell them how much you care about them, and how wonderful they make you feel. Hold them tight, kiss them with all the emotion you can muster, and tell them that while you're not feeling up to fucking, you want them to know they still light up your existence like no one else can.
Life gets in the way sometimes, and we need to remember that our partners are a part of our lives, and something that makes our lives as fantastic as they are. It's our job to make sure they know that.
However, do I agree with it?
Not really.
Sure, I'd love to be in a position where I could fuck every day. Hell, multiple times a day if possible, but that's just my own nymphomania talking.
Sex on the regular is awesome, but it just takes the edge off the hunger that's always there. What I believe is necessary, especially if living with a significant other, is all the small gestures of physical intimacy. Someone can have sex every day, and have it fall into routine like everything else they do, and begin seeing it as just a normal motion of the day. We take our partners for granted, without showing them the appreciation and desire they deserve.
Quiet snuggles before bed. Holding the person you care about and kissing them gently on the forehead just before falling asleep. Grabbing them as they walk by to hug them tight, and kiss them with such desire they need to stay in your arms for a few moments longer just to be able to walk away. Randomly running your hands over their body, under their clothes.
These little gestures based on desire alone, show the appreciation of your partner and their presence. It's the pure intimacy behind the actions, and the uniqueness of each one that keeps it from feeling like routine.
We need to remember how much we care about our partners, and the growth they promote within us. It is important we not forget to thank them for that, as often and naturally as possible.
And yes, sex is important. Sex is even better on the regular, because the more we get, the more we tend to want. It increases desire, lets off pheromones, and builds the bond between us and our partners. It also feels like an obligation for some people after a while. Or we are tired, or stressed, or sick, and simply don't have the time and energy to fuck. These times especially we should never let physical contact fall to the wayside. These are the nights where you curl up on your partner, tell them how much you care about them, and how wonderful they make you feel. Hold them tight, kiss them with all the emotion you can muster, and tell them that while you're not feeling up to fucking, you want them to know they still light up your existence like no one else can.
Life gets in the way sometimes, and we need to remember that our partners are a part of our lives, and something that makes our lives as fantastic as they are. It's our job to make sure they know that.
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