If you can't tell by now, camp had a lot of people trying to figure me out over time.
Lux is very obviously just a top and a domly person, and no one questioned that when we got there.
However, when we first showed up, people just thought I was another submissive there with a domly dom, all quiet and awkward.
And then I started having those conversations about how I go about things that Lux isn't into. The sort of safe details that only someone who has topped those things for a while would do.
They got the idea I was a switch, but then those ideas started rolling in their heads. Do Lux I and I switch? What things do I even do? How much knowledge, and how careful am I?
And from there I noticed a lot more people talking to me. No longer was I someone who just took what Lux dished out. I was now someone to figure out. I talked a lot more about safety in things I do than just listing off what I enjoy. When people heard about how much of a beating I can take, they wondered if that's what I dish out as well.
I'm used to being the weirdo in a group of weirdos, and as someone who took their time feeling comfortable somewhere, I'm cool with people wanting to figure out how I work.
When you don't flat out advertise what it is you do, sometimes it's fun to watch people try to put together those little pieces.
Lux is very obviously just a top and a domly person, and no one questioned that when we got there.
However, when we first showed up, people just thought I was another submissive there with a domly dom, all quiet and awkward.
And then I started having those conversations about how I go about things that Lux isn't into. The sort of safe details that only someone who has topped those things for a while would do.
They got the idea I was a switch, but then those ideas started rolling in their heads. Do Lux I and I switch? What things do I even do? How much knowledge, and how careful am I?
And from there I noticed a lot more people talking to me. No longer was I someone who just took what Lux dished out. I was now someone to figure out. I talked a lot more about safety in things I do than just listing off what I enjoy. When people heard about how much of a beating I can take, they wondered if that's what I dish out as well.
I'm used to being the weirdo in a group of weirdos, and as someone who took their time feeling comfortable somewhere, I'm cool with people wanting to figure out how I work.
When you don't flat out advertise what it is you do, sometimes it's fun to watch people try to put together those little pieces.
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