I try to be very relaxed about my partners finding other fun people in their lives. I try to trust their judgement, because, hell, they decided to keep me around, so they make some good decisions. I learned while with Thrax not to think of myself as being in competition with anyone. That if someone is going to treat me like shit, they'll do it regardless of the other people, and anyone worth keeping around will listen to me warning them about unhealthy or attacking behaviors. Jealousy doesn't serve me, and I'm very comfortable in my view that so long as I'm being treated consistently, everything is cool in the world. If at any point I need more attention, I have no problem asking for it, and generally get it. However, I get nervous whenever a partner of mine finds a new person. It's not really out of worry for how it'll affect me, but how it'll affect them. I'm incredibly protective, and I've seen partners get hurt by others far too often to
My life is such an odd and surreal rollercoaster of kink, mischief, body modification and wonderment. Read along, and see the new pages of the journey that is my life, with all the sex, trouble, friends, family, pain, and adventure.