Thrax used to constantly refer to people as "spinning plates", which was something I hated. Any time you compare someone to something mundane and generic, it's showing you don't see them as a complex unique being. And always when using this, he would say that my plate was "well spun", and use it as an excuse to ignore me, thinking I was perfectly happy being on the backburner, as he spent all his time, money, and energy, attempting to woo toxic girls, despite my speaking up about issues. He was so concerned with just obtaining people, and then seeing them as taken care of just because they were present. He would constantly neglect me, thinking I was happy despite my blatently saying otherwise. People, especially significant important partners, are not spinning plates. They aren't something you just check in with once in a while, or put work in at the beginning, and then move onto the next. It creates that cycle of neglect, occasionally looking and
My life is such an odd and surreal rollercoaster of kink, mischief, body modification and wonderment. Read along, and see the new pages of the journey that is my life, with all the sex, trouble, friends, family, pain, and adventure.