While I'm aware of a lot of things outside of the heteronormative space, it often takes the right example to have something make sense. And while it took time for me to learn about my own polyamoury, lack of gender, and demisexuality, apparently there's still more to learn. After I last saw Puppy, he sent me an animation with someone coming out as Aromantic. While I've been aware of it for the longest time, I didn't think that it was something that applied. I've spoken about not enjoying most traditionally romantic things, but had always thought I was capable of romantic feelings. I mean, I'd had relationships, felt attached to people, and the like. But watching this cartoon, more and more spoke out to me, and then I went looking on my own, and things started becoming clearer. I've never felt that sensation of butterflies and fireworks. While capable of connection, everyone who I've ever been really attached to was an incredibly close friend first.
My life is such an odd and surreal rollercoaster of kink, mischief, body modification and wonderment. Read along, and see the new pages of the journey that is my life, with all the sex, trouble, friends, family, pain, and adventure.