Oh yea, that's right, I actually feel the need to type this up lately. Never assume anything about me. I will surprise you. From the first moment, to years later, there will be things about me that you will not expect, and assuming the wrong thing, and treating me that way will only kill your chances. Common things that occur with this are my sexuality, orientation, or gullibility. Don't try and get anywhere the first time we hang out in person. Sure, we can talk sex, and play and all of it, but don't suggest anything. I've got a very strict "No play on the first date" policy, and trying to break it, will result in me breaking you. No means no, but yes does not mean push further. If I'm cool with something, enjoy that. I'll take things further if I'm comfortable with it. Trust me, I have no issue taking the initiative sexually. Make the first move. Yes, this means after we've hung out at least once. Even just a small comment o